I was just talking with my co-worker about her husband and my husband, and how different they are when they are sick. How different she and I are even. For example, when her husband is sick, he wants her to be all over him cuddling him and making him better. Serving him and giving him back-rubs ~ the whole 9. When she is sick, she wants nothing to do with him, she only wants to be left to her own devices.
As for me and mine ~ when I’m sick I want my husband ON TOP OF ME, keeping me warm and cuddling and protecting me. I beg him to come and lay with me. I don’t feel good, I want him. If he’s not around, I feel WORSE. Now, my husband on the other hand doesn’t want anything to do with me when he’s sick and that hurts my feelings. LOL. I try to be there for him but he just tells me to leave him be.
How are you when you are sick? Are you a loner or do you need someone (husband/wife/partner/friend) to be there for you?